Prenatal Child Loss & Grieving the Invisible Future with Dr. Tom Dutta

Prenatal Child Loss & Grieving the Invisible Future with Dr. Tom Dutta

In this deeply moving episode of Beyond the Loss, Dr. Sharon Spano welcomes Dr. Tom Dutta for his first public conversation about the death of his son, Tommy, who passed away preterm over three decades ago. Together, they explore father grief, hidden shame, identity, family systems, and how buried loss can transform into compassion, service, and deeper purpose.

If I Feel Joy Again, Am I Leaving My Child Behind?

If I Feel Joy Again, Am I Leaving My Child Behind?

In this episode of Beyond the Loss, we dive into this complex emotional landscape. For many parents, joy after loss doesn’t show up as pure relief. It arrives tangled with loyalty, confusion, and fear—not because joy is wrong, but because navigating life after this...

How Child Loss Changes the Entire Family System | Beyond the Loss

How Child Loss Changes the Entire Family System | Beyond the Loss

In this episode of Beyond the Loss: Life and Identity After a Child Dies, Dr. Sharon Spano explores how the death of a child affects not only the grieving parent, but the entire family system. This conversation offers a thoughtful lens for understanding grief, relationships, and the unseen patterns that emerge after profound loss.

The Question Every Grieving Parent Asks

The Question Every Grieving Parent Asks

There comes a point in grief after child loss when many parents quietly realize something difficult: some questions may never fully resolve. Why did this happen? Why my child? Why did life unfold this way? And no matter how much time passes, those questions often...

When a Parent’s Identity Changes Forever

When a Parent’s Identity Changes Forever

Grief after losing a child doesn’t just change how we feel. What we don’t often expect… is how deeply it changes where we belong. Not in obvious ways. But in quiet moments— in conversations that feel different… in relationships that begin to shift… and in the subtle...